Thursday's Tastycake: Niki Sharelle. Sinceer (Part 2)

We all know Sinceer from Flavor of Love 3 and in the last part, she answered questions by getting to the very detail. Some of the issues that were found were the realness of Sinceer/Seezinz "beef" , how low the ladies of the show were being paid,and the hypocrisy that was going on in the house. Eventually what was most important to me was her ability to play her guitar. Sinceer, I'm waiting for you on ustream :) lol.

Well, here's Part 2 of this great interview. Hope you enjoy. She's giving out her number.......sike! ok i got your attention.

(Previous: Sinceer Part 1)

One thing that I saw different after the show. I went on your myspace.....

My boobs?

Of course your boobs! But how bout your "Superman" tattoo on your round applebottom(Sorry. i'm a dude. i Kool-aid smiled from ear to ear when I first saw it) What was the reason for the tat?



(Giggles) I wanted another tattoo. I wanted a superman tattoo but I wanted lips on my ass for the haters. I'm indecisive. I'm a Cancer. Cancers are indecisive. I'll debate on what draws I'm going to wear today. So with the tat I was going back and forth. So I decided for the Superman tat on my butt. So the S can stand for Sexy, Sinceer.....Super-Ass! (Lmao) Superbitch (lol) But it's different. That's why I got it. And it's cute. And it's pink. You can tell it's pink, right?

Yes, I can tell. Thank God I have a good monitor.

I'm going to get another one. Maybe on my boob. I don't know. I might get a tattoo as a tribute to Michael Jackson, because I love that man more than anything in my life. I cried for a week. And I never met him lol. But I really love him.....I mean the Thriller days, not...well you know...Thriller days he was finnnnne. Now I didn't know what he did to himself. But I love him. As a fan. I love his art. He's the greatest, period.




On your myspace it says your single. I don't believe it. Did anyone step up correct?

Lmao! Im picky! When you got your own thing going, you can make a choice. But at the same time, I'm not getting any younger, so I'm trying relaxing on my pickyness. My thing is how you treat me. I dated some not-so-good-looking dudes before. I don't care too much about looks. I care about the connection we have, like how you treat me or do you get on my nerves. Mostly if you get on my nerves. I get irritated very easily. Sometimes I deal with some dudes and they get on my nerves. You ever start dating a chick and they start getting on your nerves and all up in your business?

Oh, definitely. It happened few times before and I would think, Why did I choose you again??

Lmao. Yeaa but I do go out on dates but sometimes I be like fuck it! Because I have so many dudes trying to get at me. Not like I'm the fuckin bomb but when you have so many options its like I don't want to choose. So I'm testing the waters, because I'm at the age where I want to settle down. No, I'm not telling you my age. I'm in my 20s. (laughs) I'm at the age where I'm done bullshittin. Like when I was 18,19 I dated dudes because he had nice rims on his car. Because he had an S-Curl. You know? Stupid shit. But now, you have to have a set goal in your life. At least if you're not there, at least work on it.
I'm not looking for a baby father or anything like that. I have great parental skills. But at the same time I'm like, "What is your motive?" Are you trying to date Nicole or Sinceer? Say I give somebody my number, and they text, "Send me a pic, Sinceer" Damn, Are you serious? Lol. You trying to date Nicole. Sinceer is two year old now. That bothers me. They act like they trying to get to know me but really they want to know the chick from Flavor of Love. Like they'll tell their friends " hey guess who I'm talking to?" like so what? Ain't like the show came out yesterday. It's over. I'm trying to build something else for myself so I can go back to Nicole. But for the fans of Flavor of Love, it's like an obligation. They want to hold on to Sinceer, so I guess it's like an alter-ego.






What magazines/videos have you appeared in?

When I first started, I got asked to do Black Men's and Smooth but I didn't want to do it because after the show I felt exploited. At the same time, magazines get you exposure too. If I want to get out there, I want to do it on my own terms. I guess after the show I didn't trust anybody. But next month there's a brand new magazine that's going to hit stores so I'm going to Atlanta to shoot for that one. Right now I'm in a magazine called Assets. That's just in the South. So I'm building myself up. That and maybe the reality show. I don't want to leave home but in the end I might do it just to get out there for my fans. They want to see me. So if ANY reason I do ANYTHING it's for my fans. Wasn't for that I'll be sitting at home, play my guitar, watching TV. Modeling is a passion of mine, but not the #1 thing for me.

What do you enjoy about modeling?

The photos. The results. I'm not flexible. It hurts standing there having your ass at the camera and turn around so they can see your face. But the results are nice. Thank God for the photographer because a lot of people don't realize the photographer has everything to do with the outcome of your photos. If anyone is trying to pursue modeling, make sure you have a good photographer, especially if you are not used to modeling.

One quote you live by

I live by a lot of quotes. But ultimately I do what makes me happy. I went through a lot in my life and at some point I grew to say "fuck it" It wasn't meant to be. The other day I almost got a DUI

Wow! Lol

Yea, clearly I was over the limit. And I was dwelling on the fact that I got stopped for a DUI but I should be glad that I didn't get charged.You still shocked because it's like 'oh my god' I could have went to jail. So focus on the positive, not the negative.

Word. Glad you got out of that

Hell yea! lol If i was at .08 I would have went to jail. I was at .05 (Damnn) So Don't drink and Drive. Lol. But seriously I've been blessed because there have been times where I drank and drove and don't remember how I got home. And don't look at life as half-empty. Look at it as half-full.

You should have your own reality show

Hell yea! Called, Sincerely Yours, dammit! Call MTV.

LOL at least have your own bottle. Ludacris got Conjure Cognac

I know. It'll probably be a beer. I didn't like beer until the show. Then I grew on it. So I guess I should have my own brewery, huh? Lol. But seriously I'm not an alcoholic. I just do it socially, like go to a happy hour, not sit at home and drink my life away.






What are your future plans?

Hopefully, sooner or later I'll be married and back to normal life. If anything I'm going to continue focus on my sons and make them successful. Sooner or later I got to take my focus off of me and put it on them, because I'll be damned if I have any bums. Hopefully I'll have a Sammy Sosa. Lol.

Any shoutouts?

Shoutout to my fans. No, I call them supporters. I really, really, really.......really appreciate you all. I'm surprised I still have that many people on my side, standing by me, waiting for what I'm going to do next. Because of there I push to go out there. If it wasn't for them, I would just go back to normal.

Contact info.

I got a website called Sinceerly Yours coming soon, probably won't be out until the spring or summer. I will let you all know once that is out but for now:

myspace.com/niki_sharelle
twitter.com/_Sinceer_

Or just google me :)

Great interview! I had a lot of fun talking to you.

Awww I'm glad I did this interview.

Thursday's Tastycake: Niki Sharelle. Sinceer

A lot of you remember this face from a popular reality show a few years ago. You probably didn't like her because she appeared to be a bully. You probably joked about her forehead or waited to see what she was going to do next. And some of you watched her on TV, just to get turned on by her chest and Apple Bottom. The bottom line is this: She does everything by her terms, speaks her mind to no limit, and doesn't give a wing of a fuck about your criticism. Few years past, and she's still the same. My hour-long conversation with her was interesting, as if i was talking to my homegirl. She dishes the dirt on reality TV, Seezins, dating and everything in between. So ladies and gentlemen, here's the exclusive interview with Niki Sharelle. You all know her as Sinceer.

Hey wassup!? First to clear things up: Should we continue to call you Sinceer, or start calling you Niki?

Lol (laughs) Ummm I think I should start going by Niki or Nicole, my real name because I don't plan on having to do anything with Sinceer anymore. But without Sinceer you wouldn't know who I am, you know? So I guess you can still call me that if you want to.

That's true but Nicole could be a bigger name tho.

Yea because I may do other reality shows and obviously I can't use Sinceer. So just call me whatever you want. Nicole, Niki, Sinceer.

How was life during the show Flavor of Love 3 being aired?

Umm I got a lot of threats because I was an asshole. (laughs) But at the same time I still had people that gave me a lot of respect because people act like I was being mean for no reason. People didn't realize that they were messing with me and I was standing up for myself. But I guess because I was so mean when I was standing up for myself that no one didn't realize they were picking on me.


Yea but you were always my favorite out the whole show.

Really? I was? Awww thank you :-)

For real. A lot of people asking me "Why you like her so much?" and I said "Because she's defending herself. Couldn't you tell??? (laughs)

People were like "You're so mean! I'mma kill you for what you said to Bunz' mom. blah blah. And I'm like "haven't you seen she talked about my mom twice before I talked back? (laughs) People see things the way they want to see it. I wanted to be the nice guy, not the jerk anyone didn't like. Unfortunately that was the case. You go in the show wanting to portrayed as this and they portray me as something else. That really bothered me after the show. I was so done with anything with VH1 because they made me look bad. And I'm not a bad person. I just speak my mind when I feel I need to. But they portrayed me like Satan's daughter and shit (laughs) and I'm not like that in real life.

How is life now, years after the show?

I'm pretty much modeling. Because of the show, people like my body. Good thing about the show is it does gives you exposure, a foot in the door that you might not have had. I'm not saying I went on Flavor of Love for that. I never modeled, I never did anything else like that before then. But when you're on there, you realize that it's bullshit. (Laughs) Females weren't bullshit but the subject of the show is bullshit. Like the Ray J show, I'm like "Why is everyone upset?" Then he fucks Kim Kardashian. He can get a fuckin bitch. (we both laughing) He doesn't need a show to get a female! But people surprised when it doesn't work out. With me and Flav, people were shocked. People think he couldn't get anybody in the outside world because they think he's ugly. But with Ray J and Bret Michaels, they are nice-looking guys. So why is anyone shocked when it doesn't work out? Because they trying to get themselves exposure.




Tell me the things you're up to these days.

Looking into another reality show. I don't want to say because I'm thinking about it. But it's a popular show that is out right now. If I do go for it I will let everybody know. Also I'm practicing playing the guitar. It's my most favorite instrument in the whole world. And I really needed a hobby, so I picked up playing the electric guitar.

Really? That's Hot!

Don't get me wrong tho. It's hard as hell but I'm so focused on the results in the end.

You and your family from San Diego, right?

Well, just my parents. But we are not from San Diego. We from New Jersey, but we been on the west coast for so long.

How was your childhood like?

I had a pretty good childhood. I was really shy when I was a kid. No one believes that. I was really insecure when I was young until High School. I didn't feel like I fit it. I always hung out with my brother and sister. So it was hard for me to fit in.

What is the one thing you enjoy doing?

Sleep!

(Lmao!)

I enjoy laying in my bed and sleeping! Other than playing the guitar. When I'm good to play one song, I'm going to UStream it.

When you set and better at playing, you got to play me a song

Most definitely. Now it's a bad American Idol audition. But probably in a month or so, I will play one song. I plan to be intermediate by the end of the year. In order for me to be good I got to practice 30 minutes a day, every day. But I'll play for you! I can't wait to play a song!

Nice! I like girls that plays an instrument.

Okay! For real. Its a sexy instrument.

I tried the guitar but turntables caught my attention.

Ok cool! That's wassup. When you play an instrument you got to be dedicated. I spent so much on this so I'm forcing myself to learn. Lol

Here's the punchline. You have to tell me the truth: Was Flavor of Love REAL? Real people looking for love? or script?

There's no script on a reality show because we don't get paid as actors. People try to come in there with certain characters. I honestly didn't know what i was getting myself into. I tried to be genuine so that's why I wanted to be named Sinceer. But obviously there are people that go on there for whatever reason that they want. No script. If anything they try to provoke a situation that you don't care about. An example is someone may say "oh I hope I get in a magazine" and you normally don't care but they will bring it up to attention and make you fight over it. But they can't make a script. They not paying you as actors.

How you feel about other reality shows basically copying off of Flav, like Love of Ray J, Rock of Love, Love blah blah blah?

(Laughs) I'm over it! I don't even watch them! I don't even know who a lot of these reality stars are. When i got there I honestly believed he was looking for somebody. But when I peeped game, I realized it's bullshit. Not the females, but the guys were bullshit. The producers are there to make money. They don't give a fuck about your feelings. They don't give a fuck about anything. They try to make it seem like that but they don't. And to be honest I'm not under contract under them. Fuck them. They just there for money. When I was on there I got paid $100 a day......to get exploited. (Laughs) These motherfuckers are getting paid millions over making you look like a fool. But now that i know that! (Laughs) I can make a decision on what type of show and what I'm getting myself into.

That's what the world goes around. Money and sex. I'm surprised you said $100 a day. That's crazy.

Nooo! People think you all rich. It's whatever you do after the show that gets you money. It's not the show. Maybe if you were a strong character, you may get an offer to do Celebrity Fit Club if you're overweight. But you don't get money from Flavor of Love. If anything, you get exposure to do other things. Flav gets the money. Real and Chance gets the money. Ray J gets the money. I think they get like six figures to do the show while we get $100 a day AND WE'RE the ones that make the show. Not Ray J. Not Flav. The beef between the cast makes the show. But you don't get paid shit. You get peanuts compare to what they getting paid.
You need a backup plan. You can only ride off the show for so long. So if you decide to do a show like that go full force. Exposure.makes a character out of yourself. But if you're going for love, it's not going to work.




Who do you still keep in touch with from the show? Do you still talk to Flav? How is the reaction now?

I don't think anybody talks to Flav anymore. If anything I keep up with Prancer. And Gravy, if you remember her. Everyone else just went there own ways. I dont think they going to do any more "I Love" shows especially after the "Marry a millionaire show" when the homeboy killed his girlfriend. I think they're done. It's too much. It's over-saturated. Its bullshit

I think reality shows are bullshit. I think the producers pick the person and scenarios before the episodes.

You know what? I'm not going to lie. I think the producers choose who they want to keep around. Because I wanted to leave, to be honest. I peeped game, and they tried to make me mad. They let other girls talk to Flav over me. On top of that, we didn't have any chemistry. So how did I last this long? Made me seems like an angry black woman. So I think ultimately they choose who they want in the end. Obviously if you kick off the bitch early, the show is over. I think they knew Ray J's friends was going to embarrass Luscious. They did that on purpose.




Another big question. The "beef" between you and Autumn(Seezinz). Was that real or script? Is it squashed? Can we ever see you two in the same room?

Yes, that was real. We became pretty cool after the show. You get over it especially when you feel played the whole time. The only thing that made me upset about her is she disrespected my dad. That's like the love of my life. Talk about me and I get over it, but don't talk about my family unless you expecting war. That pissed me off. As far as when we in the house, I couldn't stand her at all. But I'm over it. That was years ago. We are grown women. She said she was messing with me because the producers told her to. And they know I don't play. I have a short temper.

And they eliminated her before you.

Because Thing 2 came back for our conflict. But i was sooo over it! To be honest, when Flav sent me home I was like Ok. But they recorded something at the end to make it seems like I cared. But I was over it. I didn't want to be there anyway so when Flav said "Your time is up" I was like "Ok Bye. :-) What the fuck you expect me to do, cry? Fuck you. (laughs) C Ya! Thank God! I was so relieved when I was sent home. I got my life back. There's nothing in the show. No TV, no internet, you can't have your friends over. It's like they force you to go nutty.

That explains a lot about some of these reality stars that act so crazy. I would talk about Danger but this interview is not about her.

(Laughs) Its like you in jail, with food and beer.

You said you was thinking about doing another reality show.

Yea and it's not like Flavor of Love so that's why I may do one this year. But for a while I was over reality shows. It's traumatizing in a way! But this one is not like that. I'm not fighting over a dude. So I'll have more freedom than the Flavor of Love house. If i do one, I'll you know. I should do one because of my attitude.




Part 2 coming tomorrow(includes her intake on men and dating) Stay tuned.....